Dating the sweet guy
Four Secrets of Attracting Women. The tough part is, it's really hard to sort these guys from the douches with acting skills. If you're friends, he's where he says he'll be.
1. It's Good For Your Soul
A cocky attitude may in itself tell a woman a guy has the goods, and lying can cover the rest. Factually, their lives and loves are crappier—not happier.
So, nice guys, keep being nice. No, everything is actually the way two people in love relate to one another. That's as it should be.
Being told you should like a nice guy who you don't find attractive is the literal worst.
Jerks are less well-liked, they have more stress, and they have less happy lives. And that leads to ka-ching. Not that you shouldn't already know your worth, but dating a good guy affirms what you know: When you love a nice guy you'll know it's real—you're not mistaking pain with depth of feeling because he's not hurting you.
The Money The reason girls love status is the same one women do: This guy is a probably a friend of a friend who randomly took his shirt off at group hang-out indoors in the wintertime while making eye contact with you and you felt so awkward about it that you had to fade out from the entire group. Those awful, toxic, tug of war relationships can feel like love like simply because they're emotional and confusing. It's Good For Your Soul.
Being in a relationship with a decent guy is not about turmoil.
2. It Teaches By Example
Being respected, treated well, listened to, cared for—it's undeniably dating the sweet guy. His Top Five Dating Fears.
He will, without much concern for your feelings on the matter, overwhelm you with needy gestures to win your heart, and probably call you a bitch when you finally lay it out for him that you just don't feel the same.
If you want to test your own personality traits, you can look here before continuing. You don't have to pretend to be someone else to keep him interested. It's easier to coax a little naughtiness out of a good guy than it is trying to get a hot bad boy to be a caring boyfriend.